I didn’t even test today as AF showed up yesterday morning at work.
I wasn’t surprised. I had zero symptoms the last 4 days aside from extreme hunger – which is actually a very reliable PMS symptom for me. And my temp went down dramatically 3 days ago, so I was prepared for AF to rear her ugly, unwanted head.
S and I made a plan for this process. No matter how many tries this takes, we will always plan something fun on Test Day. This week, we just bumped up our Fun Plan by one day and went out last night on a date. This was my consolation prize:
Full of tequila and deliciousness. Although we both want a baby really badly, it was nice to remind ourselves that we have a pretty great life right now. A baby will just be the much-wanted icing on the cake.
We’re both actually doing ok. We tried, we know the timing was great, and the rest was out of our hands. Onwards.
I have an appointment for an ultrasound on CD11, next Friday, to start monitoring my follicles. I have the unmixed contents of a trigger shot at home, just waiting to be used. Still no clomid yet. Let’s see how this monitored cycle goes.
We’re still hopeful guys. Still hopeful.
I’m sorry you weren’t successful this time. xx
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Thanks!
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I’m sorry. I’ve had that happen to me before too. Hopefully next time. 🙂
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Thanks friend. It was actually kind of nice to never see a negative pregnancy test though, even though it was a day early. Fingers crossed for the next cycle.
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Sorry it didn’t work out for you this time. It’s a great idea to plan something fun for test day! Hopefully next time it will be a celebratory event! 🙂
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Thanks! I hope so too!
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That’s a great idea to plan something fun for test day. When we start trying again, I’m going to borrow that idea, even if it’s a little spirit boost. I’m glad you’re still feeling hopeful, hope is good. It’s our driving force through this madness, and I feel like the hope is what gets us there.
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Thanks. Yes, I was grateful to have something fun lined up!
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I’m sorry it didn’t work, but you should definitely be hopeful. Sometimes it just takes repetition! Onward, we go! Also, I get extremely hungry before my period too.
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Thank you ! Yes, we keep reminding ourselves that this will take a few tries and that’s ok. Weird about the hunger right? I wonder if it’s the body’s way of loading up on nutrients in preparation of blood loss. huh.
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I’m sorry Hun. I love your Fun Day idea though. And I agree- it’s important to remind ourselves how good life is in the present.
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Thank you! Yes, it’s very important. A baby is a great addition, but it’s nice to remember that we’re ok regardless.
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Glad you guys had a fun night. The process of trying to get pregnant can drive you mad but you’re doing all the right things.
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Sorry to hear it’s not worked this time xx
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Thank you!
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Ugh! Sorry friends…glad you got out of the house and enjoyed each others company…on to the next round! Fingers still crossed for ya…
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Thank you! We’re gearing up for the next round and trying to remind ourselves this might take a few tries. And that’s ok.
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Hang in there!! So happy that you guys can still recognize the awesome stuff in your lives! When you finally reach the”promised land” it will be even sweeter!
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Thank you! yeah, it’s nice to remind yourselves that life if pretty great, regardless.
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